Published in Couples in Addiction Recovery 4/23/11 (www.bobnavarra.wordpress.com)
Are We Having Fun Yet?
Margaret and James used to have a good time together – that is when they were both drinking. They had quite a ritual, with both coming home from work around the same time they would begin their daily pattern of happy hour. For many alcoholic couples, happy hour doesn’t stay happy as alcohol begins to change moods, temperaments, and judgement, all leading to unhappy hour. This wasn’t the case for James and Margaret. They rarely fought during their happy hour and often had lively conversations filled with laughter. They both saw this time as a time to bond. Drinking time was a fun time for them, often lasting several hours. After dinner, well not so much fun, with both falling asleep usually watching television. Drinking wasn’t so fun always at other times either as health issues for Margaret and…
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